So I am three months into the job, - but who's counting??? (me!!!).  the job itself is mainly fine, I actually managed to settle into the team ok and get on with people fine, although I find it a very negative position given that I constantly have to deal with disciplines and grievances, and the list of people who I have pissed off is growing longer by the day.  I hate leaving the kids when they are ill - which has happened this month with Ben being poorly a few weeks ago and Rebecca ill today.  But I realise this is something every working parent has to deal with.
I'm hoping that at the end of this job I can have a bit of time to reassess the finances and perhaps not work regularly again for a little while.  I just need to stop spending money......